(那时候的我,一直都在想,依赖和恋爱到底有什么不一样?如果过去一切的一切都只是我的错觉而已,那我过去的感觉也未免太过逼真,真实了。)

Yes, this is a world which belong to me, where i can express myself freely here. But this is not a normal world. At here, snow is no longer white; shiny day also won't appear here. Here is the hell for a dark angel, a world which belong to the dark angel.

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Friday, 30 April 2010

岁月神偷

爸爸勤奋,是一家之主,一家支柱,整天埋头用自己的好手艺做鞋子维持一家人的生活,坚实稳定,绝对是妻儿的依靠。
剧中几个令人印象深刻的情节:
1;老夫哄老妻“全条街你最靓啦”。吴君如妈妈那羞涩的一笑也十分传神,我不禁感叹,真好啊。
2;十号风球的台风天,大风大雨中爬上楼用双手拉住欲坠的屋顶,大喊:“最紧要保住个顶啊!”其实,爸爸就是全家人的“顶”,挡风挡雨当太阳。
3;大儿子血癌住院,差佬提高“保护费”,全家人日子不好过的时候,爸爸为妈妈做了一双美丽的红鞋子,质地舒适做工精美,还特地每只做了一个镂空的花朵,让老婆走路的时候脚上的鸡眼不会再被磨得生痛。
4;半夜跑去当铺,当掉了结婚戒指,换来为儿子输血的钱。妈妈摸着爸爸那道被戒指勒出的痕,眼里都是泪水,而爸爸的双眼里的闪光却透出坚毅。

妈妈乐观,人生贯彻的是那句话:“做人,总要信!”口才好,鞋子无论松紧或是刚好,全部都可以让她说成 GOOD FIT 卖出去;里里外外一把手,把家收拾得井井有条还能帮助老公打理生意;面对大儿子的绝症,一直不放弃,就算是北上求医不成,依旧相信生活会好;把一双鞋子的两只分别取名,“难”和“佳”,她说人生就是这样,一步难一步佳,就走过来了。就算生活平平淡淡,但是能在老公低潮时鼓励他,能照顾好两个儿子,能让家庭在波波折折中继续,她一定拥有着很强大的内心积极力量!吴君如这个角色的温柔,聪明,贤惠,坚强,特别是那句“做人,总要信!”,似乎让人看到了一个好女人的范本,觉得她值得拥有一切的赏赐,而上帝却只给了她一个波波折折的普通家庭,不过,或许这样的丈夫和儿子,已经在她看来是最大的赏赐。

细佬(弟弟),这个孩子很“韧皮”,在每一个阶段都偷拿了一样东西,夜光杯,英国国旗,仿造的明星相片,兑换卡片。。。这些都是他的宝贝。在爸爸妈妈和哥哥的保护之下,他不知道人生的苦辣,只知道酸酸甜甜。小朋友坚持相信兑换券后面写的“永远有效”,他抬起头,大眼睛里都是清澈,都是坚信。最后,他相信奶奶说的话,如果把你心爱的东西都丢进苦海,你就能和你爱的人相见。于是他把那些小玩意儿一一丢进了大海;可是我们都知道,他放弃了那些,也不可能再见到哥哥。这些回忆,这些人和事,就是被岁月偷掉的,回不来了的。可是长大后的他还是相信着哥哥说过的双彩虹的故事,然后整个电影的 Ending,就是出现在天空的双彩虹。

Monday, 26 April 2010

做人,总要信

做人,总要信。

是电影《岁月神偷》里,吴君如饰演的妈妈角色最喜欢的口头禅。
个人很为这一句简单的话,而被感动了。是的,做人,总要信。如果什么都不信,那人生还有希望吗?只要有信念,就能坚持到最后;结果是如何,那是不得而知的。不过至少相信可以让我们挺到最后,至少坚持过;那就没有后悔,没有遗憾了。认同吗?

另一句很经典的话就是:-
演爸爸的任达华,在戏里是一位鞋匠。他一直认为 “鞋” 字,换了个边,就是个 “难” 字。
而太太吴君如则认为, “难” 自去了个 “又”,就是个 “佳” 字了。所以说,艰难的时期过了,佳境也就会到来。人生嘛,不可能一帆风顺,却也不可能永在困局的。必须尝尽 “酸甜苦辣” 的,这才叫人生。很有意思吧?

言归正传,一部没有惊心动魄的打斗动作,没有华丽目眩的特技效果,可是却做到了扣人心旋的电影;就是它了 - 《岁月神偷》。
看了之后,我只有一个字的评语 - 赞!!!

Tuesday, 20 April 2010

我們說好的

我們說好 絕不放開相互牽的手, 可是現實說光有愛還是不夠; 我们走到分岔的路口,你向左我向右, 我們都倔強地不曾回頭。

我們說好 就算分開一樣做朋友, 時間却說我們從此不可能再問候; 我们在人群中再次邂逅, 你改變了那麼多, 可是我還是淪陷在你的眼眸。

我們說好 一起老去看細水長流, 现在卻將會各自成為別人的某某。

我們說好 下個永恆裡面再碰頭, 愛情會活在當時光節節敗退後; 下一次如果再邂逅, 我还是想一直都淪陷在你的眼眸。

這就是無可救藥愛情的荒謬。

Monday, 29 March 2010

人生

原文:矛盾的人生(转载自朋友的部落格)

有些人。。。
有些事。。。
有些爱。。。
有些过去。。。

有些人,一直没机会见,等有机会了,却已经犹豫了,相见不如不见啊。
有些事,一直没机会做,等有机会了,却已经不想再做了。
有些爱,一直没机会爱,等有机会了,却已经不再相信爱了。
有些过去,一直想去忘记,等到时间长了,却已经没办法再忘记了。

有些人,有很多机会相见的,却总找借口推脱,等到想见的时候,却已经没机会了。
有些事,有很多机会做的,却一天一天推迟,等到想做的时候,却已经没机会了。
有些爱,给了你很多机会,却不在乎没在意,等到想重视的时候,却已经没机会了。
有些过去,原本可以忘记的,却一直放不下,等到想忘记的时候,却已经深深印在脑海中了。

或者你给了很多,对方却不在乎;或者对方给了很多,你却不在意。
也许原本是相爱的,结果却搞不清当初是为了什么原因而分开的;说好要到永远的,不知怎么就散了。

人生有时候,总是很讽刺的。

然后,忽然醒悟,感情原来是这么脆弱的。
从此不再相信爱情了,混混噩噩地过生活。

也许只是赌气,也许只是因为小小的事情。

[幻想着和好的甜蜜,或重逢时的拥抱;那个时候会是边流泪边捶打对方,还傻笑着。]

可是,现在各有各的生活,各自爱着别的人;曾经相爱,却已经形如陌路人了。

即使在同一个小小的城市,也不曾再相逢。
某一天某一刻,走在同一条街上,也看不见对方。
先是感叹,然后是无奈。

也许你很幸福,因为找到另一个适合自己的人。
也许你不幸福,因为这一生就只有那个人真正用心在你的身上;亦或你把所有都放在那个人身上。

很久很久,都没有对方的消息了,也不再想起这个人了;不是不想再去想,而是不敢去想起。
时间已过,什么都不会留下来了;有些东西是争取不来的,即使是耗尽此生。

如果有一天选择了死;那不是对生命的无知,只是淡淡地不想去表态而已。

Saturday, 27 March 2010

Happy Birthday...... to MYSELF!!!

27 years old LOL... Time flies and i am getting older and older each and every seconds. Haha... another normal birthday, no celebration, not much wishes, and even myself also almost forget about this day. Thanks to friends who wish me anyway, that remind me, this is my birthday today. Thanks, i appreciate it a lot.

Anyway, this super LESS wishes which compare to a normal person (which i am abnormal?), make me realize that, in fact, i really don't have much friends. 原来我的人缘还真的很差;源河,你讲对了。I really not dare to say that i am a good friend to everyone; i do know about all my weakness. But i really use my heart to treat my friends sincerely. Maybe i done it in a wrong way? Because i do know that no one feel my sincerity. What a loser in life...

Sigh... Don't know what to say anymore. Again, i really thanks to friends who remember my birthday and wish me. And i would like to thanks to friends who forgot as well, you really teach me a lesson... as i thought that you are my close or good friend, but in fact, i am just nothing. Is time for me to improve myself already.

献给自己的一首歌,


我知道傷心不能改變什麼 那麼 讓我誠實一點
誠實 難免有不能控制的宣洩 只要關上了門 不必理誰

一個人坐在空盪包廂裡面 手機 讓它休息一夜
難 像切歌切掉回憶的畫面 眼淚不能流過十二點

生日快樂 我對自己說 蠟燭點了 寂寞亮了
生日快樂 淚也融了 我要謝謝你給的你拿走的一切

還愛你 帶一點恨 還要時間 才能平衡
熱戀傷痕 幻滅重生 祝我生日快樂


Terry: 祝我生日快乐!

[在脑里默默地数了一下,只怕自己还有几十年的孤单生日要过,该是时候习惯一下了。]

晚安!
Good night!



Thursday, 25 March 2010

爱爱爱。。。



什么是爱?我越来越不懂了。

怎么办啊?

我原以为爱是很简单的,其实,爱真的是很简单的;可是现实让爱变得复杂起来了。爱,已经不再是相爱的两个人的事情而已。现实中的爱情,已经跟面包变得密不可分了。

怎么办啊?

我以为我找到了属于我的会长大的幸福,可是事实并没有我想象中来得简单。

怎么办啊?

我开始茫然了。


在夜市里逛地摊,送你一副耳环,你很喜欢,一整晚笑声不断
陪你看电影哭完,戏里相爱好难,你很感慨,现实会害人离散
为你生日的夜晚,亲手料理晚餐,你真可爱,很捧场吃两碗饭
你电话有点摔坏,一直想帮你换,努力加班,你心疼得泪打转
你说浪漫和贫富无关,是心让爱灿烂
在捷运车站,不在乎围观,感动亲吻起来
为你种下会长大的幸福,让今天担心你的朋友,明天笑闹着嫉妒

May I...

Rest in peace???

Attending my ex-classmate's father funeral... sigh... life is really difficult... especially at the moment that all the silent killers are trying their best to approach us... BUT... death... or i should say in a better word... REST IN PEACE... is a better living choice for loser like me??? May i ask... may i rest in peace now??? I am sick of everything... i am totally lost... no directions at all... sigh...

Friday, 19 March 2010

阿密特 0424 演唱会曲目

1. 当我开始偷偷的想你
2. 冲动
3. 薇多利亚的秘密
4. 吉他SOLO转场
5. 分生
6. 你好不好
7. 水蓝色眼泪
8. 相爱后动物感伤
9. 弦乐(卡农)
10. 公主彻夜未眠 - 歌剧图兰朵选段
11. 不要乱说
12. 永远的快乐
13. 将爱(原唱: 王菲)
14. 黑吃黑
15. 我可以抱你吗?
16. 趁早
17. 哭不出来
18. 寂寞保龄球
19. 圣歌(管风琴)
20. 灵魂的重量
21. 掉了
22. 音乐转换
23. Come Together
24. So Good
25. 发生什么事
26. 发烧
27. 瞬间
28. 火
29. 好胆你就来(台语)
30. 彩虹
31. 爱,永远不会消失
32. 因为有我
33. OK
34. 三天三夜
35. 开门见山

四人遊

方大同-四人遊

你的長髮為何不留 你幹麼會學懂喝酒
你那個男朋友 酒量也算一流
聊個一整夜只怕不夠

你為甚麼跟他鬧酒 你莫非要借酒澆愁
你那個女朋友 到底還有沒有
搞不好我們四個人 去旅遊

*原來一回頭 原來才顯出你溫柔
 我當時愛得不夠
 原來只能夠做朋友 從前快樂沒變哀愁
 原來在那關頭 全因捨得分手
 你說是否荒謬 我們比從前看起來更熟*

改天你母親搞賀壽 我帶女友出來走走
你就知我理由 不外乎太羞
如果要一起去旅遊 去歐洲

REPEAT *

那天澎一聲關門 就走
很想問 你有沒有眼淚 想流
你以為 你的魅力大得足夠
少有 我們像在迎新懷舊

原來一回頭 原來才顯出你溫柔
我當時愛得不夠
原來只能夠做朋友 從前快樂沒變哀愁
原來在那關頭 全因捨得分手
還去不去歐洲 四個人不許酸溜溜


昨天在车上听了这首歌,就深深地被歌词给吸引住了。蛮有感觉的一首歌,大家不妨仔细地品味一下。

当时分手,原来只是自己爱得不够深,原来我们只能够做朋友。
哈哈,有意思。。。

Monday, 15 March 2010

Nice Job... which i don't like!

Currently i am a Quality Assurance Engineer in an IT company which named as "Docuflo (MSC) Sdn Bhd" or "InfoConnect Sdn Bhd". My job functions, as can see from the position title, is about the software quality, which i have to perform software testing.

BUT......

After CNY until now, 3 weeks, me and my colleagues had been through the most stupid 3 weeks of working life. Don't really have much task to do, even i have go and request for a new task, but still same result - quite free 3 weeks time.

Request for more task:

Unclosed task pending at developer site for debugging - get no response from them after i send an email to request for response (here, unwritten company policy, if i send too much email, i am fighting cock, i am cari gaduh, i play office politic; if i didn't, CEO cannot see what i had done, where i have nothing to write in my weekly report, then CEO will think that i am slacking all the time in office?)

New task that coming soon - i ask for dateline, because i want to know more clearly so that me and my colleague can follow up on it to ensure no delay on developer to send for testing; answer i get is, YOU DO NOT NEED TO KNOW DATELINE... why? Don't i have the right to know the dateline of what i will do later on?

Training - yeah, while we are free (because we also not free all the time), is good to have some training to improve our skills and all that; BUT... push here push there, taichi here taichi there, answer i get is - A: already inform B that you have interest to attend training, B will register for you; another version from B: i did not get any information from A that you want to join, so didn't register for you. Good taichi skill? But in the first place, is not i go and ask for training, is you guys said want to send me for training!

Worst to come, software testing is software testing, why differentiate with project based and non-project based? Why? Well, i don't mind to test on all kind of software. But why? Why company do not allow? Why must we just test on a fixed thing? I understand that project based task have customer to test for us on their site. But wouldn't it be better if we test it internally first and we present the version with minimal bugs and errors to customer? Isn't it better in this way? Why even i request want to help to test on my free time but all i get is deny.

I don't understand. Maybe things did not work as easy as i think. Maybe upper level do have their difficulties that i cannot foreseen. But me... as an employee here, this is what i think while i am still on job. Would it be better if someone can explain to us that how things work around? Why everything have to be so secretive? Or maybe is just me being too childish where everywhere else is having such working environment? I don't know.

BUT...

I do know that is time for me to leave and go explore more in the outside world; rather than just work still on a same single company. Is time to go...


PS: Yeah, it is a nice job, in fact, quite free on working hours where still can get stable income monthly... But i don't like it, i am eager for a more challenging job...

Thursday, 11 March 2010

爸爸给4岁女儿的一封遗书

给可爱的女儿:

再吃十次蛋糕就可以找爸爸了。爸爸和你玩了好多次躲迷藏,每次都一下子就被你找出来。不过这一次,爸爸决定躲好久好久。你先不要找,等你十四岁(还要吃完十次蛋糕)的时候,再问妈咪,爸爸躲在哪里,好不好?爸爸要躲这么久,你一定会想念爸爸,对不对?不过,爸爸不能随便跑出来,不然就输了。如果还是很想爸爸,爸爸就变魔法出现。因为是魔法,不是真的出现,所以不犯规,爸爸不算输。爸爸的魔法是:趁你睡觉的时候,跑到你梦里大玩游戏。在你画图画爸爸的时候,不管好不好看,你觉得是爸爸,就是爸爸当你拿爸爸的照片看时,爸爸也在偷偷的看你。。。
要记得,爸爸一直都陪着你,你已经是四岁的大姊姊了,爸爸要拜托你一件事,要你照顾和孝顺爷爷、奶奶和妈咪,看妳是不是比爸爸以前做得好?有多好,妈咪会告诉你的爸爸。猜想,我们这一次玩躲迷藏要玩这么久,爷爷、奶奶、妈咪有时候看不到爸爸,他们一定会偷哭。偷哭就是犯规、就是失败。他们偷哭,你就要逗他们笑,不然游戏输了以后,他们一定会哭得更厉害了。好不好,宝贝?你们是同一国的,来比赛看你们厉害,还是爸爸。准备好了吗,比赛就要开始了。


(十年后的女儿给爸爸的信)

爱玩的爸爸,你躲在哪里?你不是说我吃过十次蛋糕后,就可找到你的吗?这十年来,我很听爸爸你的话,为了不犯规,害怕游戏输掉再看不见你,我努力地照顾爷爷、奶奶、妈咪,他们哭,我逗他们笑。爸爸,他们终于笑了!我赢了!游戏结束了,你该回来吧,对吗?
原来。。。
不对的!我期待爸爸你的回来,再和我玩躲迷藏的时候,妈妈却告诉我,我再也看不到你了。
原来十年前的我已失去了你这个爱玩的爸爸。。。
爸爸,你为何忍心骗你最爱的女儿?十年来,每吃一次蛋糕,我对你的思念愈累积,对我们十年后的再会也就愈期盼!十年的累积实在令我输得更惨痛!十年前,若你让我选择的话,我宁愿爸爸不要骗我,你该相信你的女儿吧!
我会坚强,我会更努力逗爷爷、奶奶、妈咪笑。
又或。。。
来骗我一辈子,和我玩一辈子的迷藏,让我赢回一辈子的你。爸爸,十年后的今天我没有减轻失去你的震撼,虽然痛,但我会努力我的人生,不会辜负你的爱,不会辜负你和我玩十年躲迷藏的苦心。

THE END


学会欣赏身边的美好,就等于充实自己的生活,离去只不过是在躲迷藏!!!
想一想,要珍惜现在的生活,不管它是苦是甜,努力创造美好的未来!!!
人生苦短只有爱才会永留,有时我不知什么才是爱,也许是有在离开的时候才会知道。。。

Wednesday, 10 March 2010

好马不吃回头草

有些事情,过去了就没法再回头了。再不舍得,再怀念,该放手的还是得放手。对不对?

“过去让它过去,来不及从头喜欢你;如果不能够永远走在一起,也至少给我们怀念的勇气,拥抱的权利,好让你明白我心动的痕迹。。。”

是的,真的是来不及回头了。话说“好马不吃回头草”;我是好马吗?我不知道。可是,我知道我是不会吃回头草的了。


有多久没见你 以为你在那里
原来就住在我心底 陪伴着我的呼吸
有多远的距离 以为闻不到你的气息
谁知道你背影这么长 回头就看到你

过去让它过去 来不及
从头喜欢你 白云缠绕着蓝天
如果不能够永远走在一起
也至少给我们怀念的勇气 拥抱的权利
好让你明白 我心动 的痕迹

总是想再见你 还试着打探你 消息
原来你就住在我的身体守护我的回忆



很贴切的歌词。
真得很久不见了,久到我都快不记得你是谁了。可是你的影子还是住在我的心里面,我想它将会是我心房一辈子的住客吧。不过,真的都过去了;就像歌词那样,让它住在我身体里守护我的回忆吧。

题外话:
那天偶然间在FACEBOOK看到了你的消息,你出车祸了。我的心跳得就差没有从口里跌出来;很自然地,顺手拿起电话,就像拨过去慰问关心一下。可是,那一瞬间,我却顿住了。呆了一呆,扬起了一丝微笑,原来我已经没有资格去担心了。原来,我们的一切早就过去了;原来,随着时间的流逝,我对你的关心已大不如前了。那似成相似的感觉,原来只是一种习惯性,反射性的举动而已。怎样都好,还是祝你一切安好。。。

Thursday, 4 March 2010

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Wednesday, 3 March 2010

Terry: "@#$%^&......"

I don't understand at all. What the hell is this? Why is happening to me? After CNY holidays, back to office until now, we are really quite free!!! To be honest, is SUPER free. It's not that we don't want to do our task, but is our company have nothing for me to do. What we can do, we already done all; even we go and request new task from HOD, still the same - have nothing to do! But HELL, you understand that is you really have nothing for us to do; then what the heck still need to write those FUCKING so called "Weekly Report"!?? While we have to answer if we didn't submit a good report? How am i suppose to write it when company have nothing for me to do!? "Rest and Relax" - i suppose i can write this down? FUCK!!! On the other hand, it's very obvious that there are plenty of things that we can do, or at least we can help. But why still want give all those lame excuses to exclude us from the tasks!?? What is the thinking? Is it we are not capable enough to help? If that so, why hire us to be employees??? GOD, i really need an answer!!! And yes, please help me out from this FUCKING boring situation!!!!!!

Tuesday, 2 March 2010

Get to know yourself better

Dear Terry Chew, below are your Personality Tests result:

Who is your true self: You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.

Yourself: You are intelligent, honest and sweet.

Girlfriend/boyfriend: You like serious, smart and determined people.

Relationship: You are ready to commit.

Love: You like to flirt and behave seductively.

Education: Education is very important in life.

Job: You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance.

Success: You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go.

Afraid: You are afraid of things that you cannot control.

财神到

《财神到》,算是2010年最后一部上映的贺岁片吧,也是同事极力推荐的片子;所以我就去看了。当中,它又分成了3个小故事。个人最喜欢的就是第2个故事,是环绕着女主角张雨绮和男主角张震的一个爱情故事,很感人的一个爱情故事。天庭女财神533(吴姗姗)被派下凡执行任务,去帮助一个瞎眼钢琴家,可是得到的指示是要让钢琴家的财产增加1元。百思不解下,决定乔装成钟点女佣去了解这次特别任务的对象。在朝夕相处之下,两人互生情愫;最后女财神依毅然为爱放弃自己财神的身份,运用法力医好了钢琴家的双眼,而自己却得永远留在凡间面对被清洗了记忆的钢琴家。不过,最后当然还是有情人终成眷属。

很感动,原来爱真的可以是很简单的。什么名利,什么地位,什么财富;一切都不重要。当自己心爱的人开心时,自己所付出的一切就已值回票价了。同意吗?

话说回来,很应景的一部片子。今年的农历新年和情人节都落在同一天,这片子又有财神又有爱情故事,还挺合适的。还没看的,就去支持支持吧。

Thursday, 25 February 2010

Wealth? Success? Love?

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out..."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened...
"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"
The woman went out and invited the men in"

"We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How n ice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth.. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"

His wife disagreed.. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

Their daughter was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter's advice," said the husband to his wife.
"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."
The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, t he lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!! !"

Friday, 12 February 2010

Old Folks Home Charity

Well, today i follow our company to visit the old folks home at OUG. It's a charity program by our company to bring some happiness to elders during CNY (i guess so?). This is not a pleasant trip i suppose, the weather is super hot until i feel like want to faint on the way. Anyway this visit trigger my feeling - i miss my grandparents!!!
I can see the happiness on the elders' face when there is somebody visiting them; even the visitors are some strangers like us, we still able to bring great happiness to them. Along the morning, on the chit chat session, the elders keep talking to us like we are their grandchildren. Sigh... This remind me of my beloved grandparents.
Since i was a little kid, my grandparents (on mother side) were no longer here, they passed away when my mother is still a teenager. So i only had a pair of grandparents (on father side) throughout my life. And we were so close, as we lived together for years, and they did take care of my and my brother when my parents when away for work. Sigh... Many years passed, i thought that i had got over it. But in fact, i didn't. This visit really trigger my memory, that i miss them so much!!!
Anyway, this is the fact that i cannot change forever, that my grandparents were passed away and no longer with me anymore. On the good side, i believe they are living happily on heaven now (i suppose?)... because myself also not really into any cultural believes. Anyway, "gong gong" and "po po"... you will blessed me from heaven right? I miss you so much!!! So damn much!!!!!!

Tuesday, 9 February 2010

I Want to Know What LOVE is...

I gotta take a little time
A little time to think things over
I better read between the lines
In case I need it when Im colder

In my life there's been heartache and pain
I don't know if I can face it again
Cant stop now, Ive traveled so far
To change this lonely life

I wanna know what love is...
I want you to show me...
I wanna feel what love is...
I know you can show me...

I'm gonna take a little time
A little time to look around me...
Ive got nowhere left to hide
It looks like love has finally found me...

In my life! there's been heartache and pain
I don't know if I can face it again
I cant stop now, Ive traveled so far
To change this lonely life!

I wanna know what love is...
I want you to show me...
I wanna feel what love is...
I know you can show me...


♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

我需要一点时间,一点思考事情的时间。。。
我不知道我能否再次面对那刺心般的痛苦。。。
但是,为了改变这种孤独的生活。。。
我想知道什么是爱。。。
我想感受什么是爱。。。
我知道你能告诉我!!!!!!

Monday, 8 February 2010

现代名句精华

• 樹多必有枯枝,人多必有白癡。
• 君子報仇,三年不晚。小人報仇,一天到晚。
• 醫生叫我行光合作用,別熬夜 。
• 帥有個屁用!到頭來還不是被卒吃掉!
• 騎白馬的不一定是王子,可能是唐僧;帶翅膀的不一定是天使,也可能是「鳥人」。
• 就算是Believe 中間還是有個 lie。
• 就算是Friend 最後還是會有個 end
• 就算是Lover 最後還是會 over。
• 就算是forget 也要先 get才行。
• 就算有個wife 心裡也要假設 if。
• 壓力始終來自於新台幣! (人民幣)
• 樹不要皮,必死無疑。人不要臉,天下無敵。
• 人生(人蔘),不過比當歸長一點。
• 懷才就像懷孕,時間久了才能讓人看出來。
• 上帝給了我們七情六慾,我們卻把它們變成了色情和暴力。
• 最浪漫的三個字不是「我愛你」,而是「在一起」。
• 前程四緊就是:手頭緊、眉頭緊、衣服緊、時間緊。
• 青春就像衛生紙。看著挺多的,用著用著就不夠了。
• 女人的愛是用說的,男人的愛是用做的。
• 幸福離我們很近,但,我們都忘了靠近。
• 天底下沒有所謂複雜的事情,是人的思維和感情把它複雜化了。
• 福利不是問題,問題是沒福利。錢不是問題,問題是沒錢。
• 今日事今日畢,過了今日就不必。
• 皮夾裡的發票永遠比鈔票多。
• 我不是隨便的人,但我隨便起來不是人。